Jaipur

Our train ride to Jaipur was extremely efficient – much more so than I expected given the delay en route to Agra – and we arrived right on schedule…to the minute. Since we had arranged a ride from our hotel before we left, we fought off the other tuk tuk drivers and made our way to the Anurag Villas. (The drivers who wait for the train to arrive will tell you anything to try to get you in their tuk tuk – some said our ride wasn’t coming, a few told us our hotel was undesirable and others took a more complimentary route and told me I looked like a good Muslim with my beard!) We were both exhausted and fell asleep quickly after checking in.

For our two full days in Jaipur we decided to hire a tuk tuk each day to drive us around to see all the sights. There are clusters of tourist attractions within walking distance of each other but, like other cities in India, the streets aren’t great for walking. Our hotel set us up with Abdul, one of their regular drivers. Abdul is generally a good person, but even good people (it seems) can’t escape the lure of trying to take advantage of tourists in Jaipur…

Our first stop was the City Palace, a combination of an old palace and museum. It was an interesting way to start the day, but neither the palace nor museum were particularly outstanding.

Sarah posing by one of the palace gates.

Sarah posing by one of the palace gates.

These “guards” offered to take a picture with me…for a tip, of course!

These “guards” offered to take a picture with me…for a tip, of course!

Jaipur is known as the “Pink City.” We think it looks more orange-y than pink, but a lot of the buildings were decorated with this same color palate.

Jaipur is known as the “Pink City.” We think it looks more orange-y than pink, but a lot of the buildings were decorated with this same color palate.

Peacocks are also a big thing here. They are the national bird of India but because so many can be found around Jaipur, there were many peacock-inspired designs in the buildings we saw here. Sarah kicked some European tourists out of the way to get …

Peacocks are also a big thing here. They are the national bird of India but because so many can be found around Jaipur, there were many peacock-inspired designs in the buildings we saw here. Sarah kicked some European tourists out of the way to get a solo shot in this peacock-themed door.

Another gate in the palace. Like I said, the locals are very into peacocks!

Another gate in the palace. Like I said, the locals are very into peacocks!

After we strolled through the City Palace for an hour or so, we headed across the street to Jantar Mantar, a collection of old astronomical instruments. This is one of five centers like this across India that showcased the country's astronomical skills in the 1700s. The grounds contained many instruments that did one of two things (from what we could tell): tell time or measure the distance from the Earth to the Sun. We saw 20 or so people making sketches of the structures – given all the unique angular designs, I can see why it would appeal to the artistically inclined.

This is the world’s largest sundial behind Sarah. It is accurate to the second (apparently).

This is the world’s largest sundial behind Sarah. It is accurate to the second (apparently).

After a lunch break, Abdul took us to Hawa Mahal, a.k.a. the Women’s Temple. This whole structure was built so royal women could observe festivities in the City Palace without being seen (by men) from the street. We happened to be visiting on International Women’s Day and we saw a group of Indian women doing a photo shoot to mark the occasion. Though much progress has been made toward women’s equality since this temple was built, India still has a long way to go (it's hard to ignore all the bad press the country has gotten regarding attacks on women over the last two years - even this week there was controversy around the government's decision to censor the documentary India's Daughter).

There was a lot of stained glass like this throughout the complex.

There was a lot of stained glass like this throughout the complex.

Sarah standing in front of the screens the women of centuries past were required to stand behind.

Sarah standing in front of the screens the women of centuries past were required to stand behind.

Looking out a Jaipur from the top of the temple. You can see the world’s largest sundial in the background.

Looking out a Jaipur from the top of the temple. You can see the world’s largest sundial in the background.

Abdul took us on a bit of a detour we didn’t sign up for at this point. The tuk tuk drivers get kickbacks from certain shops, restaurants, etc. for bringing tourists so, naturally, they try to get you to go there. Sarah mentioned she wanted to see some of the shops we’d driven past earlier in the day. Abdul’s response: tell us we’re going to shops, take us to the outskirts of town where fabrics are being made (as in, factories of workers producing large spools of cloth). Magically, right when we pulled up a tour guide for one of the factories appeared and offered to show us around. (Which tourists actually fall for this stuff, I don’t know…) We scolded Abdul and headed back to the center of town, stopped at one other shop we directed him to, then called it a day and headed back to the hotel.

We had another unfortunate experience at our hotel on Sunday night. No need to get into the details, but Anuraag Villa turned out to be one of the worst hotel experiences we've had on our entire trip and we had to move to another hotel on Monday morning.

Settled into our new, much nicer digs, Abdul took us to Royal Gaitor for our first stop today. We’d never heard of this place, but it turned out to be great – the marble structures were beautifully carved with intricate designs and we had the place practically to ourselves to explore. A very worthwhile stop – score one for Abdul.

This first courtyard was dedicated to Madho Singh II, who died in 1922. He had about 50 wives and 50 concubines that bore him "around 125 children." Wow.

This first courtyard was dedicated to Madho Singh II, who died in 1922. He had about 50 wives and 50 concubines that bore him "around 125 children." Wow.

Looking back on the first courtyard as a flock of pigeons took off.

Looking back on the first courtyard as a flock of pigeons took off.

Inside the main building of the second courtyard, dedicated to Jai Singh II, the founder of Jaipur.

Inside the main building of the second courtyard, dedicated to Jai Singh II, the founder of Jaipur.

Look at the incredibly detailed carvings in the ceiling.

Look at the incredibly detailed carvings in the ceiling.

One of the mausoleums in the third courtyard.

One of the mausoleums in the third courtyard.

We strolled around Royal Gaitor for about an hour, then met up with Abdul to continue on to Amer Fort, the main sight we wanted to see today. Amer Fort is considered one of the most famous in India and we can see why – it’s huge!

Abdul stopped on the way to Amer Fort so we could snap a picture of the whole structure.

Abdul stopped on the way to Amer Fort so we could snap a picture of the whole structure.

Working our way up to the gate we stopped to look at one of the many gardens throughout the fort.

Working our way up to the gate we stopped to look at one of the many gardens throughout the fort.

Inside the main courtyard (about a 20 minute hike uphill) it was time to quench our thirst with a couple of Diet Cokes.

Inside the main courtyard (about a 20 minute hike uphill) it was time to quench our thirst with a couple of Diet Cokes.

Despite most other people respecting the photograph queue at this beautiful archway, the couple behind us could not have cared less. So it’s a picture of us with two disgruntled Indian tourists!

Despite most other people respecting the photograph queue at this beautiful archway, the couple behind us could not have cared less. So it’s a picture of us with two disgruntled Indian tourists!

Deeper inside the fort we came across this beautiful courtyard, which was probably our favorite part of the whole complex.

Deeper inside the fort we came across this beautiful courtyard, which was probably our favorite part of the whole complex.

Check out the detailed mirror work on the main building in the courtyard.

Check out the detailed mirror work on the main building in the courtyard.

After about two hours in the Fort, we met up with Abdul again and headed to Jal Mahal for a quick picture. As you can see, it's in the middle of a lake - so this was as close as we got.

I can see why it's known as the "Floating Palace."

I can see why it's known as the "Floating Palace."

It was mid-afternoon by this point so we headed to Anokhi Café for lunch. This place was great – an oasis of small, healthy dishes in a sea of the heavy Indian curries available in the area. We liked the food so much that we ended up going back today for lunch! (They also sell beautiful clothes and accessories so Sarah was finally able to get her shopping fill!)

After lunch, Abdul tried to take us to another kickback shop he knows but after we refused he decided it was time to just take us home…at which point he changed the price he agreed to with us that morning. I’m getting pretty frustrated that literally every day we are forced to have tense conversations with people trying to take advantage of us. We bid a harsh farewell to Abdul and decided to spend the rest of the afternoon relaxing by the rooftop pool at the new hotel. (The pool turned out to be closed, but we didn’t care.)

We didn’t end up doing much today. We walked around a few shops and got cheap massages at the hotel before heading to the train station. I’m writing this from the train to Delhi – we have a quick stop there before flying down to Chennai tomorrow. We’ll be staying with the family of one of our friends there so we’re excited to feel more like we’re at “home” than we have over the past week and a half in India.

Agra

While we only had a brief stay in Agra, we had an unbelievable time exploring the city’s historic sights and even got a chance to relax and enjoy the pool at our hotel – a real luxury after a whirlwind first week in India.

On Friday we woke up at 4:30am in order to catch our 6:00am train to Agra and, unfortunately, encountered one last scam on our way out of Delhi. We’d been warned about various hagglers and fake agents so we proceeded purposefully to the baggage screening area, happy to have avoided any unwanted hassles. As we laid our bags on the conveyer belt one of the two men standing next to the machine pointed at the official sign that requested we show our tickets in order to enter. Alex showed him our tickets and he immediately told us our train was cancelled and that we would have to take a later train, tickets for which could only be procured from a travel agency a mile down the road. Outraged that we were clearly in the midst of a potential shakedown, we snatched our tickets back from him and shoved past the screening area where the other man simply looked on as our bags moved through the scanner. As expected, our train was right on time and the station was filled with other – almost exclusively Indian – passengers waiting to board. We shook our heads in disbelief, grabbed some caffeine and boarded our train; goodbye Delhi!

Even though our train ended up being delayed by over an hour, we were both so excited to arrive in Agra that we didn’t care. We headed straight to our hotel – a Doubletree I was able to book for next to nothing since it is brand new and I had leftover HHonors points from my time at Blackstone – and felt like we had arrived at an oasis. Back home in the US, a Doubletree might not inspire much excitement but our one-night stay in Agra was one of the best hotel experiences we have had on this trip!

By 10am we were relaxing in our hotel room, admiring the view of the distant Taj Mahal and making plans to relax for the afternoon. We had an excellent lunch, caught up on some reading and even worked out before getting cleaned up for a sunset viewing of the Taj.

Kind of crazy that this is the back of the Taj Mahal.

Kind of crazy that this is the back of the Taj Mahal.

There actually weren't many people catching the view from Mehtab Bagh but we found a very nice family to take a few pictures for us.

There actually weren't many people catching the view from Mehtab Bagh but we found a very nice family to take a few pictures for us.

Magic Hour.

Magic Hour.

After our incredibly friendly taxi driver returned us to the hotel, we splurged on the hotel buffet dinner, which we literally had entirely to ourselves. After a week of almost exclusively Indian food, we filled up on Western and International fare, including a few indulgent bites of the most amazing chocolate brownie ever (it was basically uncooked in the inside and Alex had to cut me off). The chef actually guided Alex around the entire room to show him which dishes were nut-free and which were not – a welcome change from trying to explain in gestures that chickpeas are ok but cashews won’t fly. Full and happy, we took advantage of the fast wifi and watched an episode of House of Cards before going to bed.

We woke up at 5am today in order to catch the sunrise at the Taj Mahal and we were not disappointed by the views.

Sunrise at the East Gate of the Taj Mahal.

Sunrise at the East Gate of the Taj Mahal.

Our postcard-ready view of the Taj Mahal.

Our postcard-ready view of the Taj Mahal.

The view looking back from the Taj was also pretty impressive.

The view looking back from the Taj was also pretty impressive.

It's difficult to capture the massive scale of the Taj.

It's difficult to capture the massive scale of the Taj.

Does this help? (I'm sitting in one of the "small" archways you can see from the shots further away.)

Does this help? (I'm sitting in one of the "small" archways you can see from the shots further away.)

There were a lot of other tourists but it wasn’t nearly as crowded as we feared and we were able to find a few quiet spots to take in the awe-inspiring view.

We lucked out with perfect weather, obviously.

We lucked out with perfect weather, obviously.

A modern Wonder of the World, the Taj Mahal was commissioned by Mughal Emperor Shah Jahan in 1632 as a grand gesture for his deceased wife, Mumtaz Mahal. Almost entirely symmetrical on all four sides – inside and out – it took 20,000 workers and 22 years to complete. We didn’t exactly swoon as our tour guide explained the “love story” that inspired the monument – Mumtaz was one of three wives and died during the birth of her 14th child at age 39 – but we continued to gaze in amazement at the Taj, overcome with awe at its size and grandeur.

Looking up at the massive arches.

Looking up at the massive arches.

It took a lot of patience and some very friendly strangers to score this shot!

It took a lot of patience and some very friendly strangers to score this shot!

An Islamic tomb, such as the Taj Mahal, must include a mosque. In order to maintain perfect symmetry, the architects built the mosque above as well as an identical "guest house" on the opposite side.

An Islamic tomb, such as the Taj Mahal, must include a mosque. In order to maintain perfect symmetry, the architects built the mosque above as well as an identical "guest house" on the opposite side.

Once we felt we had sufficiently experienced the splendor of the Taj Mahal, our guide took us back to our hotel for a late breakfast – yet another delicious buffet-style meal at the Doubletree. After refueling with eggs and coffee, we were taken to the “Baby Taj,” or The Tomb of I'timād-ud-Daulah.  Often regarded as a "draft" for the Taj Mahal, the tomb represents a transition toward the white marble favored during the Mughal reign. While not nearly as impressive in size or majesty, the Baby Taj was definitely a worthwhile stop; there were very few people and the intricate marble detailing was beautiful. We took our time exploring the grounds and actually managed to get a few pictures sans tourists!

Front view of Baby Taj.

Front view of Baby Taj.

While the Taj is known for its stark white marble surfaces, the Baby Taj was much more colorful and intricately detailed.

While the Taj is known for its stark white marble surfaces, the Baby Taj was much more colorful and intricately detailed.

Our last stop for the day was Agra Fort, a UNESCO World Heritage Site and massive compound built by the Mughals that is still 75% utilized by the Indian government today. We explored the other 25% open to the public – still a massive area – and marveled at the variety of architectural styles and detailing. All day we kept coming back to the same thought: isn’t it amazing that all of this was built nearly 500 years ago with nothing but human strength, raw material and a chisel?

Entrance to Agra Fort.

Entrance to Agra Fort.

I love the scalloping on the archways we keep seeing throughout India. Our tour guide explained that the more traditional archways are more Islamic, while these are more Hindu in style.

I love the scalloping on the archways we keep seeing throughout India. Our tour guide explained that the more traditional archways are more Islamic, while these are more Hindu in style.

Close up of some of the detailing at Agra Fort.

Close up of some of the detailing at Agra Fort.

Entrance to the palace within the Agra Fort Complex.

Entrance to the palace within the Agra Fort Complex.

Most people make a day trip out of Agra from nearby Delhi and while we certainly could have done the same, we were really glad we had time to relax, catch both the sunrise and the sunset and – one more shoutout – enjoy our time at the Doubletree! We are about to catch a train to Jaipur and are looking forward to spending a few days in the “pink city.”

Delhi

Our first experience in Delhi was a good primer for what we were in for over the next two days as we explored the city. Unfortunately, it wasn't a calming or particularly friendly experience. After landing at the airport, we made our way to the pre-paid taxi stand to arrange transport to our hotel. The stand operator told our driver where to go, but once we got reasonably close he decided to pull the cab over, against our persistent requests and gestures, unload our bags and hand us over to his "friend" who would "show us our hotel, just around the corner." We were a mile away and literally forced out of the cab we had already paid for. This scam may have worked in the days before Google Maps, but since we can follow our progress on our phones neither of us were fooled. It was very annoying that we weren't taken to our hotel, but more so that we had to fend off the cab driver's "friend" who was trying to book us a tour, then find another tuk tuk to take us the final mile.

Anyway, two hours after leaving the airport we arrived at our hotel. We settled in, calmed down over a late lunch and planned out how to spend the next two days in Delhi.

We decided to split the sightseeing into two days: on Wednesday we'd see Old Delhi, on Thursday we'd see New Delhi. Our hotel helped us arrange a cab for both days to drive us around (to our proper destinations this time!) and we set off to explore Old Delhi.

Old Delhi

Jama Masjid

Our first stop was the Jama Masjid, or large mosque. This is the best known mosque in Delhi and, as the name would suggest, the largest mosque in India - 25,000 people can worship here when it's packed to full capacity! The mosque was built by the same emperor who built the Taj Mahal, which is why there are so many architectural similarities.

The Jama Masjid.

The Jama Masjid.

Sarah wasn't modest enough in pants and a t-shirt so they clad her in a tablecloth-like tunic. Apparently our western-ness still shines through though because we were stared at and photographed throughout the temple.

Sarah wasn't modest enough in pants and a t-shirt so they clad her in a tablecloth-like tunic. Apparently our western-ness still shines through though because we were stared at and photographed throughout the temple.

There is a half sun at the crest of the main archway - one of the many unique features of this mosque.

There is a half sun at the crest of the main archway - one of the many unique features of this mosque.

We climbed up one of the towers to get a different perspective on the whole area.

We climbed up one of the towers to get a different perspective on the whole area.

Red Fort

The simplicity of the names of the Jama Masjid and the Red Fort didn't really leave us guessing at what to anticipate. As expected, the Red Fort is a huge walled structure with many smaller buildings within its walls. It was also built by the same emperor who built the Jama Masjid so we noticed a few more similarities as we walked through.

Lahori Gate, the main entrance of the Red Fort.

Lahori Gate, the main entrance of the Red Fort.

We came across some very cool architecture inside the fort - hard to imagine creating so much detail so long ago.

We came across some very cool architecture inside the fort - hard to imagine creating so much detail so long ago.

Divan-i-Khas, a place where the emperor would entertain guests.

Divan-i-Khas, a place where the emperor would entertain guests.

Raj Ghat

After a beak for lunch at Fresc Co - good Mediterranean dishes, a much needed change from Indian food - we drove to Raj Ghat, a meticulously manicured park with a monument to Gandhi. It wasn't as crowded as the other two sights we saw this morning so we took advantage of the open space and strolled around for about an hour.

Raj Ghat.

Raj Ghat.

A view of the grounds surrounding Raj Ghat.

A view of the grounds surrounding Raj Ghat.

India Gate

Next, our driver took us to the India Gate. The name also kind of gives this one away - it is a giant gate that looks similar to the Arc de Triomphe in Paris. Also similar to the Arc, the India Gate is a war memorial and displays the names of all the Indian soldiers who died in World War I (82,000 of them).

Because it is such a popular tourist site, there were large crowds of hecklers ready to try to convince us to part with our money. The most aggressive of whom managed to pin a paper Indian flag on my shirt sleeve before I noticed, then demanded payment. I tried to remove the flag and shake my head no but she grabbed my hand and said "donation" and pointed to both of us. I reluctantly paid rather than putting up a fight and prolonging the confrontation.

We saw so many other tourists strike this pose, we figured our trip would not be complete without Sarah posing for a similar shot! (Seriously though, we don't know why this is a thing.)

We saw so many other tourists strike this pose, we figured our trip would not be complete without Sarah posing for a similar shot! (Seriously though, we don't know why this is a thing.)

The Empty Canopy, as it's known, is just to the east of the Gate.

The Empty Canopy, as it's known, is just to the east of the Gate.

The India Gate.

The India Gate.

Bangla Sahib

Our last stop of the day was at Bangla Sahib, a Sikh temple. This was my favorite place we went today for two reasons: we got to witness a Sikh ceremony that was in progress inside and the grounds are beautiful. Plus, as an added bonus, we had to cover our heads to get in so I looked particularly like a pirate (or maybe a biker).

Pirate or biker?

Pirate or biker?

The Bangla Sahib.

The Bangla Sahib.

New Delhi

Lodi Gardens

On Thursday we were greeted by a new cab driver at 9am and set out to explore the other half of Delhi. Our first stop was Lodi Gardens, home to several prominent tombs and about five hundred chipmunks. Like the Raj Ghat yesterday, the grounds within the Lodi Gardens are very well maintained and it was early enough that we were able to stroll around casually without running into too many people - a very enjoyable start to the day!

The Bada Gumbad Complex - the first thing you see when walking into the gardens.

The Bada Gumbad Complex - the first thing you see when walking into the gardens.

Sarah especially loved the pop of blue tile.

Sarah especially loved the pop of blue tile.

Sheesh Gumbad in the foreground; Bada Gumbad in the background. Not pictured: the scurry of chipmunks at our feet. (Yes, that is in fact what you call a group of chipmunks, according to the Internet.)

Sheesh Gumbad in the foreground; Bada Gumbad in the background. Not pictured: the scurry of chipmunks at our feet. (Yes, that is in fact what you call a group of chipmunks, according to the Internet.)

The Tomb of Muhammad Shah.

The Tomb of Muhammad Shah.

Elevated graves inside the tomb.

Elevated graves inside the tomb.

Qutab Minar

After the Lodi Gardens, we went to the village of Hauz Khas for lunch and to walk around the shops there for an hour or so. The small streets are filled with boutiques (which Sarah loved, obviously) and it has a very different feel than the rest of Delhi so far. Glad we stopped by.

Rested and ready to see more sights, we headed to Qutab Minar next. A minar is usually synonymous with what I'd call the tower of a mosque (like what we climbed up yesterday). But the Qutab Minar is just a tall, freestanding tower - not part of a mosque (though much taller than any minar you'd find as part of a mosque). The whole complex is quite impressive and was declared a UNESCO World Heritage Site in 1993.

The Qutab Minar and surrounding ruins.

The Qutab Minar and surrounding ruins.

The columns of some of the ruins had incredibly detailed carvings in them.

The columns of some of the ruins had incredibly detailed carvings in them.

Different perspective on the Qutab Minar.

Different perspective on the Qutab Minar.

Lotus Temple

Next stop: Sydney Harbor. Not really, but at first glance you'd believe the Lotus Temple was actually the Sydney Opera House. The Lotus Temple is a Bahá'í House of Worship. Neither of us had heard of the Bahá'í faith before but the tour guides explained it as a pretty universally accepting, peaceful religion, which sounded okay to us. We were led into the temple and encouraged to sit and pray for a few minutes - we both sat there quietly but our take-away was more along the lines of "Wouldn't this be an awesome wedding venue?!" rather than the spiritual enlightenment they'd hoped for.

So similar to the Sydney Opera House.

So similar to the Sydney Opera House.

Humayun's Tomb

Sarah had done some research - as always - about where to find the best place to watch the sunset. Her search led us to Humayun's Tomb so we timed the day to end here. The Tomb, and the others surrounding it, were also designated a UNESCO World Heritage Site in 1993 so we weren't surprised when we saw the spectacular buildings. Definitely was the right choice to watch the sunset here!

Hamayun's Tomb. An incredible sight - and one the distinctly reminded me of the palace in Aladdin. Am I crazy?

Hamayun's Tomb. An incredible sight - and one the distinctly reminded me of the palace in Aladdin. Am I crazy?

We made friends with some British tourists and they were kind enough to take our picture in front of the tomb.

We made friends with some British tourists and they were kind enough to take our picture in front of the tomb.

The inside of the dome of the tomb.

The inside of the dome of the tomb.

Some pigeons watching the sunset.

Some pigeons watching the sunset.

We watched the sun go down at Isa Khan Tomb, just outside the Humayun Tomb complex.

We watched the sun go down at Isa Khan Tomb, just outside the Humayun Tomb complex.

We had such a great time at Hymayun's Tomb. We should've called it a day once the sun had set. Instead, we were feeling adventurous and went to Nizamuddin, a Muslim temple across the street. We'd read a few reviews that suggested it could be a bit dodgy, but that the experience (particularly the singing celebration on Thursdays, which we were just in time for) was worth it. Dodgy was an understatement: we were harangued immediately, relentlessly and aggressively by every type of vendor imaginable, throngs of beggars and "guides" offering to help us. When we finally reached the temple, we were forced into a substantial "donation" and it took only five minutes for a me to get pickpocketed and Sarah to get molested. (Fortunately I left my wallet in the car and only had a little cash on me.) Very frustrated and angry, we returned to our hotel to cheer ourselves up the best way we could in Delhi: with a heaping portion of butter chicken and naan.

We've had an interesting time in Delhi over the last two and a half days. On one hand, we saw some beautiful sights and can absolutely understand why tourists (from India and elsewhere) flock here. On the other hand, we had a couple of very bad - and honestly, frightening - experiences that will leave a negative mark on our impression of the city. We're determined to focus on the good memories though...and if necessary eat more butter chicken tomorrow to keep the good vibes going!

Mumbai

Like so many travelers before us, we were a little overwhelmed when we first arrived in India. Though we felt prepared for the developing landscape and throngs of people after our time in Southeast Asia, the shift from Thailand’s quiet beaches to Mumbai’s lively streets was still very intense.

Our flight from Bangkok didn’t land until 11pm on Saturday night but our drive from the airport provided a first look at the city and the life of its estimated 21 million residents – bustling night markets, busy roads and many ramshackle residences tucked between various buildings and alleyways. It took over an hour to travel the 15 miles to our hotel in the Fort district and we were exhausted by the time we made it to bed. We decided to sleep in and form a sightseeing game plan in the morning after getting some rest (and coffee, obviously).

We woke to pouring rain on Sunday but by the time we had finished breakfast the sun was already shining. We set out for The Gateway of India and planned to take a ferry to nearby Elephanta to explore the historic caves and drawings on the island.

Standing in front of the other hundreds of tourists, who were almost entirely Indian, and The Gateway of India 

Standing in front of the other hundreds of tourists, who were almost entirely Indian, and The Gateway of India 

Looking up at The Gateway of India.

Looking up at The Gateway of India.

Unfortunately, the rain had brought choppy seas and ferry services had been suspended for the day. Even more disappointing, ferries also do not run on Mondays so we were forced to abandon our plans to visit Elephanta since we leave for Delhi on Tuesday.

Rough seas.

Rough seas.

We walked past the Taj Hotel and slowly meandered through the districts of Fort and Colaba before stopping for our first Indian meal at Konkan Cafe.

How beautiful is the Taj Hotel?

How beautiful is the Taj Hotel?

Pretty excited to be eating Indian food. We were wowed by the upscale cuisine served here but every meal we've had so far - whether at our hotel restaurant or on the street - has been equally flavorful and tasty.

Pretty excited to be eating Indian food. We were wowed by the upscale cuisine served here but every meal we've had so far - whether at our hotel restaurant or on the street - has been equally flavorful and tasty.

After a filling and delicious lunch, we headed north toward The Museum Mumbai (aka Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj Vastu Sangrahalaya) and spent a few hours brushing up on Indian history and looking at various artifacts.

Walking past boats "parked" on the side of the road.

Walking past boats "parked" on the side of the road.

Our favorite sight from The Museum Mumbai was the museum itself!

Our favorite sight from The Museum Mumbai was the museum itself!

Exhausted from walking around all day and likely a little jetlagged, we headed back to our hotel to relax and grab dinner before falling asleep before 9pm.

We spent Monday walking around and sort of wished we had heeded the advice given to us by others: hire a cab for the day at a cost of about USD$25. We are so used to walking everywhere – and really enjoy it as a sightseeing tool – but sometimes it really isn’t the best way to see a place. While we definitely got a feel for the city and its people, we ended up limiting the areas we were able to see in Mumbai – mostly because we were worn out after covering over ten miles in two days!

The front of Victoria Terminus, a UNESCO World Heritage Site - and massive train station!

The front of Victoria Terminus, a UNESCO World Heritage Site - and massive train station!

I swear the streets outside the train station were just as busy as inside.

I swear the streets outside the train station were just as busy as inside.

Another view of Victoria Terminus - can you believe this is a train station?!

Another view of Victoria Terminus - can you believe this is a train station?!

If you’ve seen The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel, you will remember Judy Dench describing India as “an assault on the senses, a riot of noise and color.” After only two days here, I can’t say we disagree – Mumbai is crowded, claustrophobic and congested, but it’s also colorful, charming and cheerful. We head to Dehli tomorrow and are excited to explore – via taxi! – the old and new quarters.  

Reflections

 
Looking out toward the Phi Phis in Thailand.

Looking out toward the Phi Phis in Thailand.

After over seven months of traveling, Alex and I recently passed the “halfway point” of our adventure (Technically our journey will last from July 2, 2014 through August 2, 2015, but who’s counting?). We just arrived in India after a week relaxing on the beach in Krabi, Thailand and will soon head to South Africa, then Europe and finally back to Japan, returning to New York via San Francisco. Our “vacation from our vacation” in Thailand has really given us a chance to press pause and reflect on the past half-year. What follows are some of my reflections, realizations and opinions after spending time in over 15 countries these past few months. I’m no travel expert or philosopher, but I hope that I can provide a little insight into our adventure – the good and the bad.

One of the first things I understood was that that traveling with a partner for an extended period of time requires a great partner. It was well after we started planning that Alex and I realized we really hadn’t done much traveling together – Mexico, Puerto Rico, California and one big trip to Greece and Turkey were pretty much it. It never occurred to us that traveling together would be any different than living together, and honestly, it isn’t. Only after people continuously asked how we handled being together 24/7 did we realize that it is somewhat of a unique situation for most newlyweds. While our setup is unorthodox, the only thing we really seem to lack is the standard “how was your day?” conversation – because we just spent the day, like every day, together. Sure, there are times where we may find ourselves sitting next to each other quietly, but these times aren’t so different from prior moments spent on the couch in our New York apartment. We still talk about the same things – our friends and family, current events, what books we are reading, where to eat and how to spend the day and, now, the sights we are exploring. We have silly disagreements like anyone else but truthfully, we travel well as a team. We have both bended and adapted to each of our respective travel strengths and I can’t imagine traveling the world with anyone else.

Alex and I have remarkably similar worldviews and were both quick to understand that we take a lot for granted. As former residents of one of the greatest cities in the world, we were always acutely aware of our advantages and traveling has only reinforced this stance. Access to education, clean drinking water, electricity, garbage removal, paved roads, functioning political systems and many other modern conveniences simply don’t exist everywhere. It’s one thing to be aware of these tragedies and another to live alongside the people struggling with these realities every day. Every time we find ourselves frustrated when the internet cuts out or a haggler tries to sell us something we try to remember how minor these inconveniences truly are. Even more striking is that many of the people we interact with aren’t miserable, as we might have previously thought; they are simply living life the only way they know.

The lives of the people we meet sometimes seem very different but it is obvious that each person is pursuing a different path to obtaining happiness. Parents want to be able to feed and clothe their children, workers want to be able to make a living and everyone wants to feel connected to other people. We have met so many kind strangers in every place we have visited, really highlighting the importance of our relationships with others.

Throughout our travels, we’ve met people from all over the world from backpackers to elderly adventurers – each of whom does things a little differently. Some are looking to party, others hoping to make lifetime connections, most on shorter-term vacations, but all with a desire to see a little piece of the world. We definitely have a greater respect for those that take time to travel and feel strongly that everyone should try to see as much of the world as possible.

Having said that, living the nomadic lifestyle has been amazing but traveling is just one goal of many for us. Alex and I are having an incredible time together and neither of us would trade this experience for anything; however, we know that we both ultimately seek more from life. We still want to have inspiring careers, a family of our own, a home and most importantly – closer proximity to the people we love. The end of our journey will ultimately be a very bittersweet time for us.

Beyond the lessons we have learned, and are continuing to learn, we certainly miss many aspects of our former lives. Connecting with others also serves to remind us how much we miss our friends and family. We live vicariously through social media, emails and the occasional whatsapp message but it’s never enough. Getting an email is like being away at summer camp and receiving a package – connection with the outside world! I miss phone calls, parties, holidays with family and, perhaps most of all, the casual catch up or group dinner.

Speaking of food, there are so many meals I crave while away from home. We have definitely sought out local cuisine and tried many delicious dishes, but I miss things we just can’t get regularly outside of the US: bagels, turkey sandwiches, salads, diet coke and fresh vegetables (particularly baby carrots). Thai food is awesome but having curry on the beach in 90 degree heat is not always what our bodies crave. Staying fit was not initially very high on our priority list, but the lack of healthy food options and a predictable exercise routine has been a difficult adjustment. Sure, we walk and hike everywhere and occasionally our hotel will have a gym available, but it’s just not the same as sweating through an hour-long Barre or Zumba class. I’ve recently been trying to run more frequently but I am not a born runner so it requires a lot of discipline, not to mention an observant eye (weaving through rickshaws, scooters and tuk-tuks who don’t obey traffic laws makes running extra challenging!).

While we do sometimes miss creature comforts such as favorite meals, exercise classes and a place to call home, I think we have been surprised at how infrequently we feel truly homesick. We are constantly amazed by our surroundings and eager to explore new places. That pull to home only really pops up when we are already feeling a little vulnerable, sick or frustrated and – so far – passes just as quickly.

We have gotten so much better at balancing our needs and wants and each day continues to be a chance to learn and grow. Our recent time relaxing by the beach has been a great recharge and we have resolved to take more “us time” going forward. We’ve seen and done a lot over the past seven months but we are still excited for what lies ahead!